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and BRO are that these men looking for men are seeking a queer sexual encounter while still enjoying all the benefits of straight privilege.

This is obviously going to anger, sadden, disgust, hurt, or otherwise negatively impact some members of the queer community.

I was inspired mainly because I felt there was a huge segment of men that don't feel welcome in the 'gay' community — be it 'bi' guys or gay men that don't fit the 'gay' stereotype.Basically, the patrons of BRO are cashing in on all the best parts of queer sexuality — like sex-positivity, a safe space to discuss their non-heteronormative interests, and the general support of a nonjudgemental, like-minded community — while avoiding the painful struggles of queer life. Furthermore, the language and messaging of BRO seems awfully fem-antagonistic.There's nothing wrong with being masculine-identified, or masculine-oriented in your attraction.While fleeting, exploratory, or label-free same-sex attraction amongst women goes largely unstigmatized, the same is not true for sexual fluidity in men, in spite of its prevalence throughout history.Jane Ward's book Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men , published last summer, explores this idea.

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