One couple I recently read about even exchanged their vows via the web.Though I’m not advocating for extreme uses of the internet and social media such as the aforementioned, I am saying that times have changed- and it’s okay for Christians to keep up!You don’t have to be enemies, but if you want to move on in a healthy way with God after your dating breakup, you’ll need to be intentional about boundaries. Not to mention how uncomfortable this continued relationship could make your future spouse.#4: Confess Your Part, Forgive His/Her Wrongs, Repent, and Keep Moving Forward With God If you get the chance during the actual breakup process, ask your ex for forgiveness in relation to any sins you committed against him or her.Small or big, own your part and repent first to God and then to the person you hurt.
For a Christian to recover after a dating relationship ends, you need to allow yourself a healthy emotional grieving time. It’s good to be emotional, but allow your emotions to be governed by wisdom and (most importantly) by the Holy Spirit.It may sound cliché, but it’s true: forgiving someone is setting yourself free.As a Christian, if you never take the time to analyze what you did wrong in the dating relationship, you will never change. God wants to use your breakup to grow and sanctify you.Social media can be a killer when it comes to moving on.I recommend resisting the temptation to remain social media buddies.