Is it wrong for a couple to live together before they are married? Does God have one specific person for you to marry? Can/should a Christian who is a virgin marry someone who is not a virgin? What should I do if I cannot decide who I should be dating? Why is living together before marriage considered living in sin? How young is too young to be in a romantic relationship? Is it possible to love a person without liking that person? What are valid reasons for breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend? Is it wrong for a Christian to have a roommate of the opposite sex? Does the Bible truly teach monogamy / monogamous relationships?If an unmarried couple has sex, are they married in God's eyes? Should a married person have a close friend of the opposite sex?
Or does he relentlessly pursue short-term pleasure at the expense of long-term consequences?
But someone who's a Christian in name only sees no reason to bring the message of Jesus to those who haven't heard it. Integrity means there's a consistency between a person's beliefs and behavior or between his character and creed.
As one ancient saint said: "I doubt the salvation of anyone who doesn't care about the salvation of his neighbor." That doesn't mean he has to be Billy Graham, but it does mean he prays for lost friends and takes advantage of opportunities to engage them in spiritual conversations so ho might be able to tell them about Christ. Does he have a reputation for being trustworthy, or is he known for trying to cleverly cut ethical corners?
Does he recognize and apply the Bible as the foundation for his whole life? Does he gloss over his own sinfulness or blame others for things he did?
"Healthy believers don't try to pass the buck, pin the blame on somebody else, or refuse to acknowledge our actions," Collins said.