These excuses may not be anything more than bold-faced lies.
He and his wife may actually have a reasonably happy marriage and you'd be none the wiser.
So what happens when what the heart wants is someone who's already taken?
Getting involved in an affair with a married man is a dangerous flame to flirt with. Just because she doesn't know about it, that doesn't mean that whenever she does find out — and she will eventually — it won't destroy her.
When you spend so much time with someone connecting on that level, it's rare that one or both people involved don't develop feelings, and feelings make thing complicated. Many women have a tough time being intimate with someone and not also becoming emotionally attached, at least to an extent. He may tell you that you're the one he really wants to be with and that he doesn't want to stay with his wife, but the vast majority of the time he'll just be saying that to keep you with him a little bit longer.
Even though in your head you have been well aware from the get-go of the fact that he's married and has no plans to leave his wife, it's rarely as simple as telling yourself that no matter, you will not fall for him. Men know what women want to hear — especially married men, considering they've got some experience there — and they're not afraid to tell you whatever they need to in order to keep having fun with their affair. She's so mean to him, he'd better off without her.
The weekend provides time for couples and families to relax and do things together.
Keeping his distance from you in public makes it less likely that people will see you as a couple.If the man you are dating constantly shows up late and makes excuses about why, he could be married.Meeting a boyfriend's family marks the progression to seriousness in many relationships.Become suspicious if he seems reluctant to disclose his address.A married man risks getting caught when he takes you out in public.