Many girls do not have access to computers and regular internet connections. The girls end up they wouldn’t have otherwise found. On one such occasion, a Canadian arrived and we all went out to a nearby island. It was a pleasant day at the beach, and then we all headed back. Many Filipino families would be thrilled to pawn off their 15 year old daughter to speed up her becoming the goose that lays golden eggs.
They often will have some older woman pretend to be them in contacting foreigners on their behalf. They appreciate the situation, and don’t mind losing half the money their man sends. They keep this a secret of course, because their man might not approve. On the boat ride out to the island, the girl and her foreigner were cuddling. A few weeks later I heard of an issue they were having. I’m aware of many instances of underage girls looking for guys.
If you send her 0, that may seem like “not much” to you, but to them it is four month’s salary for doing nothing.
If she can float 3 other guys just like you, then she just made a full year’s salary for doing nothing more than pretending she likes you a few hours here-and-there.
There are a very high percentage of Filipina girls who are lesbians that pursue men online – for no other purpose than to milk them for money.
From my experience, I’ve seen this destroy a few men’s lives.
I’ve married a Filipina girl and now have two children, with a third on the way.
In my case, there is a very common situation that exists with Filipinas who are looking for foreign men. It is important to take note that in the Filipino mindset, it is not shocking. My wife and I typically will entertain foreigner men who come to date our friends or family. If a than that and wants to sign up anyways – they will.
She may want children, and have them go to college. This is your responsibility (not only in their opinion, but in mine as well).
If you are barely making ends meet as-is, you have no business looking for a Filipina girl – it will not end well.
In one case I’m aware of, a guy from California came here to marry a girl.
Up until that point, the man was being used for money.